success stories

When I first started working with Pam, my daughter had moved to a different city and had asked for me to not contact her. I knew we had our differences, but her decision was devastating and my heart was broken. Pam helped me to see my daughter with different eyes and from there, everything else started to unfold. I am happy to report that the new relationship I have with my daughter fills my heart with pride and appreciation for who she is. Our time together now almost feels like a dream. Pam is very good at what she does!

My daughter refused to speak to me until I apologized. However, I did not know what I was to apologize for. After our complimentary session, there was no doubt in my mind that a six-session package was worth exploring. I am happy to report that my daughter and I are back on speaking terms and while we have more to work through, I have gained tools and insight for working on myself to initiate change. Pam has been readily available during times of stress while her compassion and understanding offers a soft landing when times are tough. I will continue my relationship with Pam and I’m looking forward to my continued growth, hence continued change.

I was struggling to understand how to parent an adult child, and knew it was critical for me to change my own dynamics, and communication with her. Our once close relationship was literally on the line. Pam was quickly able to not only assess my situation, but to also give me concrete, implementable suggestions. She has an uncanny ability to quickly get to the heart of what is needed in each session. She provides feedback that is to the point, however not always easy to hear. But that IS the point, right?!

In less than an hour, Pam gently uncovered a blind spot that I didn’t realize I had about the relationship between my adult daughters. Prior to our call, I truly believed that I’d done the work to get to a place where I was accepting of the girls’ dynamic with each other. In fact, I still really wanted them to be different and that was my hidden block. Pam helped me see how it’s possible to believe that each of my brilliant daughters knows exactly what is best for themselves and I create connection with each of them through my belief. This clarity in my thinking makes it possible for me to communicate with my daughters in an authentic way from love and genuine respect.

I have been engaged in therapy for years, yet the introductory consultation call with Pam felt much more individualized to my situation. Having someone who can relate to the joys and struggles of having adult children made me feel less alone. The conversation encouraged me to focus on this next chapter of my life with me at the center. Coaching instead of therapy may be the way to start that journey for me.

Thank you so much for the introductory call we had last week. I found your input very helpful in this family weekend we had. It was a very successful weekend in part because I had the right mindset going in. I can see what could have happened if I hadn't been using some of the guidance you provided. I appreciate it so very much.

Since I began working with Pam, I have found a peace in my relationship with my mother that I never dreamed possible. I also stopped drinking irresponsibly and found my ambition and gumption again in my career. Everything in my life turned around, my self worth grew back and I feel brighter than ever. Growth (and healing) can really hurt but the other side of it is such bliss & pride. I'm so grateful for Pam and her honest wisdom & guidance in my life.

Thank you for the meeting today. I really thought your insight on raising independent children was helpful and insightful. I want to be respectful and supportive to both my children and learn how to allow both my children to feel strong and capable. You helped me see how I can achieve all that.